thoughts-forgive.

to forgive, you need to know why you need to forgive.
you need to know what will happen if you forgive.

we did our mistakes in our past as well.

may i suggest that, stop holding our grudges on others?
just move on.

holding grudges will bring you nowhere, it will lead you to destruction of your soul instead.

to forgive, you must also accept whatever is going to happen later.
these are unexpected consequences;
it can be good, it can be bad.

it will most likely end up good because you will always feel lighter without an extra grudge on someone.

so, may i suggest you, to forgive on something small? or forgivable? do not let one small factor of anger, jealousy, dishonesty, ego, pride, whatsoever.